different from the rest of your peer group but risks invariably pay off. Think about who you most trust and write down what you want to say as this can really help organise your thoughts and feelings. Also, pick your time and place. Think about when might be the best time for you to talk and where you…
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. Action for Carers Surrey If under 18 years you could also think about contacting Surrey Young Carers If you are between the age of 18 and 24 they also have a service that can help. Action for Carers Surrey has specialist advisors and runs group events specific for young carers and young adult… to talk to A young carers group at the school that meets regularly It may be you are being bullied as sometimes young carers can be seen as different. Remember you should never put up with bullying. Allowances can be made in relation to homework, extending deadlines, giving more one to one… dealt with grief in different situations by going to the Young Minds website . You can also call the UK child bereavement helpline on 0800 0288840 or visit Child Bereavement UK On this website you can also find details of an app for 11 to 25 year olds which has been created by a group of bereaved…
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Equipment Equipment can be bought directly from a specialist supplier or household shop without an OT assessment. This might include more minor equipment items such as a raised toilet seat, pressure mattress, bath hoist, over bed table, wheelchair, crutches, or a hospital style bed. If not having an OT assessment it is best the person tries it out first either as a trial period in the home or the store, particularly if it is an expensive item. You, as the carer, also need to ensure it is safe to use and not putting your own health at risk. If the equipment proves helpful you can still arrange for a social care assessment to see if the person would be eligible for financial help. Equipment such as a hospital bed, mattress, or commode can be provided by your local community nursing team. The person’s GP can make a referral to the nursing team and they will come to the home to assess…
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You may find the person you care for is challenging in their behaviour . ‘Challenging’ is often defined as when a person is putting themselves or those around them at risk, including yourself as their carer, or where their behaviour is going to lead to a poorer quality of life. It can also impact…
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for example planning their funeral or prepaid funeral plan? Compassion in Dying have produced a guide on planning ahead for the LGBT community Your treatment and care: planning ahead for the LGBT community (PDF). Things to think about Although it feels hard, have that important conversation…
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Organs can only be donated if the person you care for dies in hospital, usually in intensive care where the blood can be kept circulating. However, tissue (such as bone, skin, heart valves, corneas, and many others) can be donated up to 48 hours after a death which does not necessarily occur in…
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be more than one beneficiary, like a whole family or a group of people. They may benefit from the income of the trust only, or the capital only when reaching a certain age, or both the income and capital of the trust. Things to think about The person you care for may wish to consider setting up…
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If you have been caring for a number of years you may be feeling very isolated and would like to link up with other former carers in a similar situation. Contact your local hospice to find out about support groups for former carers, or contact Action for Carers in Surrey. You can also speak to fo…
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care workers chaplaincy services They will work alongside others involved in somebody’s care such as their GP, community nurses, hospital consultants, and nurse specialists. Hospice care is free, and paid for through a combination of NHS funding and public donation. You can contact a hospice…
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The person you care for may have spiritual needs that are just as important as their physical needs. These may not be religious concerns as such but might include finding meaning in one’s life and ending disagreements with others. The person might find peace by resolving unsettled issues with friends or family. Visits from a social care worker or counsellor may help with this. However, the person you care for may find comfort in their faith. Praying, talking with someone from one’s religious community (such as a minister, priest, rabbi, or imam), reading religious texts, or listening to religious music may bring comfort. An outline of spiritual and religious practices (PDF) relating to end of life care and different faiths. Things to think about Talk to the person about the importance of your relationship with them. If caring for a parent you may want to share how they have…